SNAKE 51: How Can a Christian Woman Find a Christian Man?

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, explore The Role of Fathers in Guiding Relationships—but this isn’t just about fathers. Pastors also play a crucial role in shepherding young men and women toward godly marriage.

We discuss how Christian men should pursue relationships with confidence, leadership, and spiritual maturity, and how young women can present themselves in a way that aligns with biblical femininity—without falling into worldly distortions. But where do young believers meet a godly spouse? That’s where fathers, pastors, and the local church come in.

Should pastors be more proactive in helping young people find a faithful spouse? What role does the church community play in fostering biblical relationships? We tackle these questions and more, offering practical, scriptural insights drawn from years of pastoral ministry.

Whether you’re a parent, a single believer looking for direction, or a pastor wondering how to encourage godly marriages in your church, this episode has something for you.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:01 - Finding a Christian Man for Women

07:56 - Attracting a Godly Man: Key Traits

12:33 - Importance of Weight in Relationships

16:48 - Traits Men Are Attracted To

18:01 - Where to Meet Good Men

21:06 - Tanner and Laura's Meeting Story

24:05 - Involving Friends in Relationships

25:50 - Singleness vs. Divorce: A Perspective

28:12 - Reformed Singles Mixer Event

32:23 - Tips for Finding a Christian Man

36:08 - Submitting Questions for the Show

36:16 - Closing Remarks