SNAKE 71: Women Should Want Godly Ambitious Men

Sep 30, 2025    Tanner Cartwright, Jerry Dorris

What qualities should women seek in a godly man? In this episode, we tackle the traits that define biblical masculinity, exploring what it means for men to rule, provide, and protect with godly ambition. We discuss how women can identify these qualities and discern the character of a man pursuing holiness, discipline, and intentionality in his life. Are you looking for a man who embodies spiritual leadership, ambition, and care? We share insights from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, where we’re passionate about helping singles navigate relationships rooted in faith.


From our reformed singles mixer to real-life examples, we discuss how women can look beyond surface-level attraction and recognize a man’s potential as a future husband. What does “godly ambition” look like in practice? How can young women discern whether a man is actively striving for excellence and growing in his faith? You’ll discover practical advice and wisdom to guide your journey.


CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Ideal Partner for Women

00:54 - Singles Mixer Event

10:35 - Young Men’s Preferences

11:32 - Young Women’s Preferences

14:02 - Colonizing Presbyterians