SNAKE 85: How to Motivate Your Husband to Lead Family Worship

Jan 6, 2026    Tanner Cartwright, Jerry Dorris

This conversation tackles one of the most practical yet spiritually significant aspects of Christian family life: establishing consistent rhythms of worship and Scripture reading in our homes. We're reminded that family worship doesn't need to be complicated or intimidating—it's not about creating elaborate liturgies or delivering seminary-level exposition to our children. Rather, it's about opening God's Word together, reading a psalm or a chapter, perhaps singing a hymn or the doxology, and praying as a family. The beauty lies in its simplicity and consistency, not its perfection. We learn that husbands may struggle with leading family worship due to fear of inadequacy or simply the exhaustion of modern life, but the encouragement here is clear: start small, use helpful resources like family worship guides, and remember that even five to ten minutes of Scripture and prayer can profoundly shape our children's spiritual formation. The discussion also beautifully addresses how wives can encourage their husbands in this area—not through criticism or nagging, but through genuine respect, affirmation of what they're doing right, and humble requests for partnership. When we prioritize gathering our families around God's Word, we're not just checking off a spiritual duty; we're creating a legacy of faith, building memories of warmth and joy around Scripture, and establishing that serving Christ together is the heartbeat of our homes.