SNAKE 80: How Do I Lead My Family After Years of Failure?

Dec 2, 2025    Tanner Cartwright, Jerry Dorris

Failed as a father? Struggling to lead your family back to faith? In this episode, we tackle the challenges of reclaiming leadership in your home, reconciling with loved ones, and rebuilding trust after years of spiritual neglect. We discuss repentance, patience, and practical tools for fostering biblical masculinity, strong parenting, and renewed spirituality. Whether you're facing resistance from your wife, grown children, or even yourself, you're not alone.


As pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we share wisdom from Scripture and personal experiences to help you move forward with courage and faith. Join us as we explore what it means to lead your family in a Christ-centered way, no matter the mistakes of the past. Have a question or topic you'd like us to discuss? Drop it in the comments below—we're here to help!


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CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Dealing with Regret

00:55 - Reconciliation with Family after Faith

02:47 - You're Not Done Yet: Encouragement

07:32 - Apologizing to Your Wife: Steps to Take

10:48 - The Importance of Patience

11:35 - Repentance: A Path to Healing

15:10 - Catching a Vision: Finding Purpose

16:35 - Final Thoughts: Moving Forward