SNAKE 52: Is it Biblical for a Married Couple to Purposely Avoid Children?

Mar 18, 2025    Tanner Cartwright, Jerry Dorris

Is avoiding kids unbiblical? In this episode, we tackle this tough and thought-provoking question head-on. Join us as Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, discuss the biblical purpose of marriage, the command to be fruitful and multiply, and the modern cultural trends like "dinks" (dual income, no kids). We dive into topics such as Christianity, biblical masculinity, parenting, gender roles, and how faithfully raising children impacts the next generation and brings glory to God.


We also explore the challenges of family planning, biblical perspectives on contraception, and the sovereignty of God for couples struggling with infertility. Are children a blessing or a burden? Can Christian couples purposefully avoid children and still honor God? Let’s unpack these deep truths together.


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CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

01:02 - Biblical Perspective on Avoiding Children

05:09 - Spacing Children: Is It Acceptable?

09:54 - Financial Considerations for Avoiding Children

10:32 - Children as an Asset: Understanding Wealth

12:31 - Building Generational Wealth Through Family

15:02 - Contact Us